
A new life for 4-year-old Nasrin
A proud and grateful father reflects on his family鈥檚 journey from Iraq to England鈥攁 last-minute flight to save his daughter鈥檚 life.
A proud and grateful father reflects on his family鈥檚 journey from Iraq to England鈥攁 last-minute flight to save his daughter鈥檚 life.
As Hiba brushes her daughter鈥檚 hair, getting her ready for the first day of preschool, 4-year-old Nasrin chats away excitedly. She grins as she brushes her teeth and talks about how much she loves her mummy while she puts on her shoes.
Apart from a small scar at the bottom of her neck, barely visible at the top of her T-shirt, no one would know that Nasrin has had two rounds of open-heart surgery.
鈥淚 still cannot believe that Nasrin now is growing and learning,鈥 says Maasom, her father, as he walks with Nasrin hand in hand to school.
The flight to life
The family now live in Andover, a market town in southeast England. Kurdish-Syrian refugees, Maasom and Hiba were living in a refugee camp in Iraq when Nasrin was born. She seemed like a normal, healthy baby 鈥 until her skin turned blue.
鈥淲e took her to the doctors,鈥 says Maasom, 鈥淗er oxygen level was 45 percent.鈥 A normal level is 95 or above.
A heart scan revealed that Nasrin needed a procedure that required two complicated operations鈥攁nd Iraq did not have necessary medical facilities. 鈥淲e had to find a way to take her abroad,鈥 says Maasom.
The family applied for resettlement to a third country. Meanwhile they waited. 鈥淲e were always worried and concerned and scared of unexpected incidents,鈥 says Maasom. 鈥淗er body turned blue on several occasions. One time she had a convulsion where she passed out because of a lack of oxygen.鈥 The family made do with temporary treatment for a year and three months. 鈥淟uckily, we managed to come to the U.K.,鈥 says Maasom.
Nasrin was accepted by the United Kingdom's resettlement program, which gives a small number of vulnerable individuals the chance to rebuild their life in the UK.
Nasrin鈥檚 journey to England was touch and go. 鈥淥n the way from Turkey, Nasrin鈥檚 condition became unstable,鈥 says Maasom. 鈥淪he suffered from a lack of oxygen and a high fever.鈥
Upon arrival, the family were taken straight to Southampton Hospital, where Nasrin was stabilized and prepared for the first of two surgeries. The operation lasted eight hours.
鈥淚t was a really hard feeling,鈥 recalls Maasom. 鈥淭here was no one around to support us emotionally in these circumstances. We were on our own.鈥
Discovering the United Kingdom
After 40 days, and a second operation, the family was able to travel to their home in Andover to start life in their new country
鈥淟ife in the U.K. is very beautiful, if you get it right,鈥 Maasom says, explaining his qualifier. 鈥淢y language is still weak.鈥 Despite their time in a refugee camp, he and his wife experienced unfamiliar feelings of alienation. They received support from the Hampshire county council, which in turn introduced them to the 探花精选. The 探花精选 recently had started a program to help resettled refugees integrate into southeast England.
鈥淲ith the 探花精选 cultural orientation program, we learned new things we didn't know before,鈥 says Maasom.
鈥淲e learned about our rights and obligations. We have a better idea of how to book appointments with the GP [general practitioner], how to get a driving licence, how to apply for a job.鈥
Maasom started volunteering at the British Heart Foundation, both to make friends and improve his English. 鈥淲e are trying to learn and improve ourselves and to adapt to life in the U.K.鈥
Nasrin鈥檚 first day of school
Today Nasrin is a confident girl who makes friends easily and dreams big. When she returned home from her first day at school, she was beaming. 鈥淥h, I have friends now! We were playing together."
鈥淪he always tells me that she wants to be a doctor,鈥 says Maasom. 鈥淪he was in hospitals as a child and now she wants to be a doctor to treat children.鈥
Maasom can鈥檛 be prouder of his daughter, or more thankful for their new life. 鈥淚t's a great feeling seeing Nasrin going to school,鈥 he says. 鈥淔or my children to grow up and study here [in the U.K.], they鈥檒l have many opportunities. That's what gives me hope to keep going.鈥
The Refugee Integration in Southeast England (RISE) project is part-funded by the European Union鈥檚 Asylum, Migration and Integration Fund and Khalsa Aid International. This story was originally .