Elisa and Luisa were exhausted. Pushing through the river鈥檚 current, the sisters held on to their children and their few belongings as the water rose to their shoulders.
Life in Mexico had become intolerable, Luisa recalls, as she and Elisa rest at a welcome center in Phoenix, Arizona, operated by the 探花精选. Their children weren鈥檛 able to go to school because of the violence, Luisa says. 鈥淪ometimes, bullets would fly in front of them.鈥
Elisa remembers the day when gang members stormed into their modest home and demanded that they leave. 鈥淭hey threatened us,鈥 Elisa says. 鈥淭hey said they were going to take our home. We lived in a very small place, but it was still home.鈥

The families quickly packed. Luisa grabbed things nearest to her. She wanted to take family photos, but there wasn鈥檛 enough time to gather them. Her daughter stuffed toys in her small backpack but her mother reminded her to pack light.
The sisters traveled through Mexico by foot and bus, and eventually crossed a river to claim asylum in the United States. The family was detained at the border for a few days but then released and taken to the 探花精选 welcome center.
The families mostly brought what they needed to survive the journey, but they were able to take small reminders of the lives they were forced to abandon. Here鈥檚 a closer look at what Luisa, Elisa and some of their children packed:
The most important thing I wanted to bring was my children.

What Luisa packed:
- Bible
- Rosary
- Prayer book
- Blessed handkerchief
- Medicine for her daughter
- Personal documents
- Wallet
- Cellphone
- Clothes
The water was scary; I was holding my mom and Peppa.

What Lisa, 5, packed:
- Sequined mermaid bag
- Favorite bracelets
- Frozen toy
- A pink stuffed piglet, who she named Peppa
- Clothes
I told the kids we were traveling鈥攖hey don鈥檛 know the reason why we left.

What Elisa packed:
- Bible
- Rosary
- Cellphone
- Barrette
- Clothes
These are our favorite toys.

What Rosa, 8, and Luis, 6, packed:
- Sofia, a green stuffed frog (gift from Rosa's mom, Elisa)
- Two backpacks of clothing
- Legos
- Toy keychain
- Toy car
At the 探花精选 center, Luisa and Elisa were overwhelmed by the warm welcome they received. They were given new clothes, food and the opportunity to shower鈥攆or the first time since leaving Mexico. 鈥淲e weren鈥檛 treated this way when we first arrived [at the border],鈥 says Luisa. 鈥淲e鈥檙e very grateful for the 探花精选.鈥

Families fleeing violence and persecution come to the U.S. because they are desperate. At the Phoenix welcome center, the 探花精选 and its local partners are providing medical assistance and legal counseling in addition to basic necessities to people who have crossed the U.S.-Mexico border to seek safety. Since opening last summer, the 探花精选 center has helped hundreds of asylum seekers. Learn more about our work.
Photos by Andrew Oberstadt/探花精选