A Ukrainian mother strives for normalcy during a time of war
Determined to stay in Ukraine, Tetiana found shelter in an EU and 探花精选 supported shelter with her daughters.
Determined to stay in Ukraine, Tetiana found shelter in an EU and 探花精选 supported shelter with her daughters.
Tetiana and her two children, 13-year-old Katya who has special needs and 4-year-old Arisha, were living in the Kherson region of Ukraine when the conflict escalated into a war.
After spending a night in their basement due to constant shelling, Tetiana made the decision to evacuate her family. The next morning, she and a group of others from their neighborhood waited for a gap in the shelling before attempting to leave their city.
鈥淚t was scary, of course. We knew that in the morning there was time when they stopped shelling. We found out the time when the shelling stopped and together with other cars we left.鈥
Though millions of people had started fleeing Ukraine for neighboring countries, Tetiana had no desire to leave the home country she loves. She was glad to find a safe shelter in the Odesa region where she could stay with her daughters and also find work helping the owners of the shelter. The European Union (EU) and the 探花精选 (探花精选) have partnered together to support this shelter and others in places where families have sought refuge from the war.
At the shelter, Tetiana helps clean the surfaces and the floors, monitors when the bed sheets need to be changed, and writes timetables for those who live there so they can contribute to keeping the shelter tidy.
She has found comfort and purpose being surrounded by other internally displaced people. 鈥淵ou know, if I was living somewhere alone, in an apartment, maybe I would get depressed,鈥 she says. 鈥淏ut here is movement all the time, I have someone to talk to鈥 And I don鈥檛 know how I would live without it really.鈥
One problem that proved challenging was when the shelter鈥檚 washing machine broke, causing a pile-up of the residents鈥 laundry. Though they received a used, back-up machine, it was hardly functional.
鈥淲e told people who had been living here and who then moved out that we needed a washing machine. And a guy brought a used one. It was rusty, it was hardly 鈥榖reathing鈥. And we have to wash, to change bedclothes, towels all the time,鈥 Tetiana explains.
鈥淲hen we had electricity, I managed to have three washes, no more than that鈥 So we had a line of people for even these three washes, but no more than that because I was too afraid it would get broken."
The 探花精选 was able to equip the shelter with a new washing machine.
Tetiana is now one of 5.1 million people who are internally displaced in Ukraine. Like many Ukrainians, she longs for the war to end and for her daughters to get the normal life they deserve.
I really want everything to end, and for life to go back to normal. We live without planning tomorrow...
鈥淚 really want a normal school and kindergarten for the kids. Katya needs a specialized school because the online option isn鈥檛 convenient at all. They don鈥檛 study properly. There鈥檚 no electricity, no internet, I can鈥檛 even explain tasks to her properly鈥 really want everything to end, and for life to go back to normal. We live without planning tomorrow...currently our home village is under heavy shelling every day.鈥
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