
Meet Chadia, the Syrian refugee dinner lady serving smiles in Brighton
The refugee mum volunteered as a cook during the pandemic and now works in a local school as a dinner lady
The refugee mum volunteered as a cook during the pandemic and now works in a local school as a dinner lady
Former-medical assistant and mum-of-two, Chadia, was forced to leave her home in Syria, with her family, due to conflict in 2016. After a difficult journey, they were resettled in Brighton, UK.
They were finally safe, but they were alone without friends or relatives and unable to speak the language. Despite the challenges, over the last six years, the family has completely immersed themselves in their new community in Brighton, which they now call home.
While at first Chadia struggled to find a paid job, she was determined to serve the community and volunteered throughout the pandemic. 鈥淚 cooked for vulnerable people and people who couldn't go out,鈥 Chadia explained. 鈥淚 did this for about a year and a half.鈥 During the rest of her time, she learnt English. And in February, with support from the 探花精选, Chadia was delighted to receive the news that she had been offered a job working as a dinner lady at a local school.
鈥淚 feel very happy,鈥 says Chadia. 鈥淚t鈥檚 not easy to find a job here.鈥 She鈥檚 been working as a catering assistant at Varden High School in Brighton for the past two months and enjoys the routine and working with new people. 鈥淚 have nice colleagues. They are very helpful and support me.鈥
鈥淪he's always smiling, always eager to get work done,鈥 Josie, Chadia鈥檚 new manager says. 鈥淪he just goes about her work. She's a gentle soul.鈥 On top of her new role, Chadia still volunteers once a month.
鈥淭he RISE programme supported me a lot,鈥 says Chadia, who was part of the 探花精选鈥檚 Refugee Integration in Southeast England Cultural Orientation and Employment Readiness training. The 探花精选鈥檚 refugee employment specialist, Dina, was on hand to help Chadia with her CV. 鈥淒ina helped me a lot with my CV,鈥 says Chadia. 鈥淚 was lucky.鈥
Chadia arrived in the UK with her two children, Nour and Zain, in 2016. Her husband, Mazen, had left Syria ahead of the rest of the family, taking over a month to reach the UK. It was six months before the family was reunited again.
鈥淢y house was destroyed,鈥 she told us. 鈥淚 had to leave. I rented another house in a different area, but it was very expensive.鈥
Her husband, Mazen, who worked for the post office in Syria, lost his job, and the family struggled to make ends meet. 鈥淭wo of Mazen's brothers died during that time,鈥 says Chadia, 鈥渟o we decided to leave.鈥
They stayed in temporary accommodation in Eastbourne before being resettled in Brighton. 鈥淓verything was different from my country,鈥 Chadia reflected. 鈥淭he language, people, roads, everything!鈥
Chadia explains how difficult it was for her children who were nine and 10 years old when they first arrived in the UK. 鈥淭hey didn't speak any English, so they鈥檇 go to school and just listen.鈥 Chadia describes how difficult it was for her son, Zain. 鈥淓very day he鈥檇 cry and say 鈥業 need to come back [to Syria]. I don't have friends.鈥 But after a while, they learnt English.鈥
Many of the people Chadia met helped her family feel welcome.鈥淟ots of people in the church helped me. I am still friends with them now,鈥 Chadia added. 鈥淚f I find something difficult, like translations or paperwork, I can call them, and they are very helpful, every time.鈥
鈥淚 think Brighton is similar to Syria,鈥 Chadia explains how the openness and acceptance of different people remind her of her home in Damascus before the war. 鈥淚'm happy because Brighton has many nationalities,鈥 she adds.
Her son Zain feels the same: 鈥淭he thing I like the most about Brighton is the diversity,鈥 he says. 鈥淢y friends at school are from all around the world. There are people from the Philippines, Southeast Asia, and South America. There are lots of people from Brazil, too. So we are all from different cultures. And sometimes I bring them food, so they can try Syrian cuisine.鈥
As for the future, Chadia鈥檚 children are her number one priority. 鈥淚f my children are happy, I'm happy,鈥 she says.鈥淚 came to the UK for my children, so they can study and have a good education and find a good job. I feel happy when I see them have a good life.鈥
Zain, who loves playing football, has taken a break from playing to focus on his GCSEs. 鈥淚 hope to do well in my GCSEs and get the grades I want to get into college. And hopefully, I can be an engineer in the future.鈥
鈥淚n the future, I want to do something that will help my mum and dad because they worked so hard for me,鈥 says 15-year-old Nour. 鈥淢y mum is an amazing person,鈥 she says. 鈥淪he always tries hard to make something for us.鈥
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