Need a little help navigating some difficult conversations at the dinner table? We鈥檝e got you. Here are some of the most common sticking points when it comes to talking about refugee and asylum issues.

Our conversation guide

If someone says: "Well we can't let everyone in just because they want to come here."

Try responding: "Actually, 75% of refugees seek safety close to their home countries. Those who come here do so because they have no other choice; they are fleeing persecution and life-threatening situations. They don't migrate because they want to; they migrate because they have no other choice. "

 

If someone says: "What if they just say they're refugees, but really they are just coming over to cause trouble?"

Try responding: "Refugees are vetted more intensely than any other group before they are allowed to enter. It can take years for this vetting process to be complete. The asylum process can similarly take years to conclude."

 

If someone says: "The number of people coming is too high鈥攕omeone on TV called it an 'invasion.'"

Try responding: "I wish you wouldn't use dehumanizing language like 'invasion'. Refugees are more than just numbers. They are people with dreams, hopes and ambitions who are fleeing impossible circumstances."

 

If someone says: "Well who pays for all this? Shouldn't we take care of our own?"

Try responding: "Refugees start businesses, pay taxes and contribute to their communities and local economies.  The vast majority quickly find jobs and become productive members of their new communities."

 

Read more on our refugee facts, statistics and FAQs page.

Learn more about the difference between migrants, asylum seekers, refugees and immigrants.

Sabah poses for a photo and smiles into the camera.
Sabah* hopes to make an impact on the lives of other refugees once she finishes her education.
Photo: Dalia Khamissy

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