What it鈥檚 like to experience war from a nursing home in Ukraine
Read the experiences of Alla, an 84-year-old resident of a nursing home in Mykolaiv, as she copes with the ongoing war and tries to stay positive.
Read the experiences of Alla, an 84-year-old resident of a nursing home in Mykolaiv, as she copes with the ongoing war and tries to stay positive.
Alla, 84, was standing in the corridor of her nursing home when their building came under attack. 鈥淚t was awful for me, the fire, the rockets,鈥 she shares. 鈥淎nd I was standing in the corridor and saw through the window how it was flying, how everything was burning.鈥
One of the explosives fell directly into the nursing home bathroom, but thankfully, none of the elderly residents were in there at the time.
Since the escalation of the war in Ukraine, widespread damage to homes and infrastructure have made housing conditions more perilous for people like Alla. Inside the country, millions of people are struggling to access clean water, sufficient food, medicine and other essential items. As violence continues to impact the lives of civilians, the 探花精选 (探花精选) is working to deliver lifesaving emergency assistance.
Alla has now experienced two wars in her lifetime: the Second World War and this one. She remembers the ending of the previous war, when Mykolaiv was liberated and people were throwing flowers at the soldiers as they returned from the battlefield.
The current war has shocked and devastated her.
I would tell you that all this news, it鈥檚 such horror. I can鈥檛 watch it without tears鈥 How many children died鈥 How many children were injured, and how many were left without parents? It鈥檚 scary, very scary.
Alla鈥檚 son died 21 years ago, so she understands the feelings of loss that many families are experiencing. Though she has cousins, they are all elderly and ill. With no close relatives to care for her, she came to the nursing home by herself eight years ago.
In her life before retirement, Alla had worked as a river traffic controller and studied how to work on the first computers, before getting promoted to be an engineer. She recalls loving the problem-solving aspect of her work.
At the nursing home, Alla is an active member of the community and though she is one of the oldest residents, she often helps take care of some of the other people who live there. She loves animals and enjoys playing with her dog Nika, watching TV, attending in-house concerts, reading, and solving crossword puzzles.
She is grateful for the nursing home staff, who have created a caring environment for her and the other residents.
鈥淲e have amazing people here,鈥 she shares. 鈥淥ur director, our cooks, our nurses. They are very good, they have such a good attitude towards us.鈥
In Ukraine, over 30% of people in need of humanitarian assistance are over the age of 60, making it the 鈥渙ldest鈥 humanitarian crisis in the world. The EU, together with the 探花精选, are ensuring the elderly have access to the vital assistance they need to stay healthy in their day-to-day lives and endure the ongoing war.
With funding from the EU, the 探花精选 has delivered blankets and hygiene kits to nursing home residents and also, has helped nursing home residents identify their legal needs.
As the war shows no end in sight, it鈥檚 Alla鈥檚 energetic attitude and care for others that keep her going.
鈥淲e have to live. Don鈥檛 give up and support others," she advises. "For example, the new woman who came here told me: 鈥業 have such a bad memory鈥 and I replied: 鈥楴o worries, me too!鈥 But when I think a lot, I recall things, and words.鈥
Learn more about the 探花精选's emergency response in Ukraine and Poland.